Thursday, June 4, 2009

Caregiving

When you have 12 children chances are a lot of things you need in life can be facilitated by one of us. Mom and Dad helped prepare us in many different ways. Between the two of them a whole set of skills were passed down. Whatever additional skills we learned were enhanced with their morals and values instilled in us, (even if at times we may not have thought we needed them lol). Those traits are evident in all of their siblings families too.

But, there is one skill that in these final months, weeks, days and hours that Mom has relied on, maybe more than any other in her life. It's strange how the timing of things happen and how things work out. It makes you wonder if it's help that comes from above. It just so happened that at the same time Mom would need someone by her side to assist with health care, her daughter with nursing skill would be taking leave of that field and be able to move in with her.

I just wanted to take the time before Mom passes and we end this blog, to thank Becky for what she has done for Mom the last couple of months. I am sure I'm safe in saying on behalf of everyone who loves Mom "Thank You Becky!" She has gone above and beyond the call and has shown true compassion, patience and love. She has been a God Send for all of us and Mom has been well taken care of. I know Becky does not look for recognition in this and considers it a privilege to have been able to do it. I also know there has been a comfort level for Mom too, with having one of her own children taking care of her. Thanks again Becky, we all love you.

6 comments:

  1. ABSOLUTELY!!! Thank you Becky, you have done an amazing job with Grandma! AND Thank you Jim for keeping everyone informed!!! The family who isn't able to be there in Pontiac during this time, has been glued to this page for updates! So, Thank you ALL for helping us stay informed. This is going to be an incredibly sad time, but we know that she will be happy, pain free and dancing with Ray again! We love you all. Please give Grandma kisses & hugs from us and tell her that we love her so much! Thanks again!

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  2. hear, hear ... thank you Becky!

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  3. thank you becky!!!! love you!!!

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  4. Here Here JIm,,I have to 2nd you on this...she is a truly amazing woman and Mary and I talked last night an she is hired for both of us in the next 20 years....Becky has done an amazing job of taking care of Mom and You can't thank her enough for doing what she has done. Thanks Becky for what you have done for Mom..we love you and appreciate you very very much...Ann

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  5. i'm here now with mom and Becky and as always she is a taking great care her ,i want to say thank's and we love the both of you....Ed

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  6. Words aren't enough for the thanks that Becky deserve, she is truly an amazing person and only thinks about Mom and what she needs. I only hope when my time comes that I have someone as GREAT as Becky to care for me. Thanks Becky we all LOVE you very very much and can't repay you what you truly deserve. Thanks, Pat

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